One of the biggest fears I hear expressed when working with people whom are about to make Big Changes is that they are afraid of losing relationships in their lives if they change too much.
The fact is It’s True and Painful…
But is it the reason that you won’t make the real changes for yourself?
Changes that you know deep in your heart of hearts is the best thing for your self growth, development and happiness….Are you going to let the fear of people not following you stop you?
I personally have experienced this over and over again in my life. And sure it has been sad, uncomfortable and also amazingly necessary. Necessary in order for me to grow, expand and become who I am today.
Overcoming Fear
By making the Big Changes despite the fear has helped me help many other people from a deep sense of service and compassion that would never have been there if I had not taking a leap of faith.
Years ago when I moved countries, which by the way was scary and nerve racking to say the least. But there were plenty of people in my life who phased out of my life because they could not understand why I was doing what I was choosing. I learned to respect them and wish them well anyway. But It was really difficult to be in a strange country on your own dealing with that feeling of loss. However on the flip side, there were a few that stood by my side and still do today no matter what changes I set out to take on.
And what I learned….is that it’s okay. Life has a way of providing exactly what you need at the perfect time you need it. People from all corners of the world will show up to support and cheer you on as you take a leap and make true changes.
Are you making big changes and getting out on the field to play this wonderful Game of Life?
Or
Are you sitting in the stands watching, observing and waiting for the right time to jump in because you are too afraid to commit to your own growth and happiness out of fear of the actual changes that are needed?
Is change a positive or a negative.
There are too many people in the stands and not enough players on the field, How you can be a player if you choose to never participate in the most exciting part of the game! How everything that you think will be bad comes to an end and everything that you think is good usually ends up being not what it seems. Life doesn’t plan for you, life happens to you. How exciting is that! How in the world does one live in a reality where nothing is certain? How can something be exciting when it has no purpose or end in sight, how do humans put up with this life of constant change and unpredictability? We as humans are so brainwashed by things that don’t particularly involve us.
It doesn’t matter if things are certain or not that’s part of the fun in the game Is just being able to play. There will be no room for growth if you’re never pushed and change things in the aspect of your lifestyle.
Whether it’s good or bad, without change you’ll never grow and be able to evolve into a better being. We’re conditioned from the very beginning to not like change at all but in all honesty, it’s a good thing because life wouldn’t be the same without it.
Place assurance into what you work towards in change. If you truly believe you put your all into something and only work to better yourself life will be uncomplicated. Don’t give up keep striving for greatness out of yourself and the people around you will know that they can depend on you.
When it comes to change, there is no such thing as a bad one. It is only when we fail in making changes and adapt them into our life properly that we experience bad results. How we perceive change makes it good or bad. Change is never an easy pill to swallow but it’s a necessity sometimes.
The self work that we do reflects how we show up in our lives. Make the commitment to yourself to take the leap into the unknown and learn how to trust the process.
Life is Now.
